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From Denise Witmer, your Guide to Parenting Teens

Teen Daughter's Bad Language on FaceBook
A parent is looking for advice on the forum: My daughter uses FaceBook very often to chit chat with friends. We signed up for it around the same time and listed each other as friends. Now, she is a very well behaved student and gets A's and B's in school. I have never had a complaint about her from her teachers with the exception of talking too much.

Since we are friends on FB, I am able to see her posts and read what's written on her wall. While she always falls short of using the full bad word, with the exception of one time that I know of, she quite often uses acronyms that use a bad word such as; STFU and WTF. Other phrases she has used are like, "It is hot A/F in here today".

I really don't know if I should say something to her about it or let it go. I really don't like seeing it but is it something you think should be addressed? Again, she is well behaved and have never had a complaint from another adult.

Denise's thoughts: "... it is a very delicate balance as you are privy to conversations your daughter is having with her peers - something our parents didn't have. If she says something that is on your radar as 'extremely offensive' then by all means tell her and remind her that everyone can see that. You would prefer she didn't make herself look like a potty-mouth in front of her grandparents. Otherwise, I would let it go."

Asking our community of parents of teens: Does your teen swear or use not nice abbreviations on FaceBook? How do you handle it? Please share your thoughts, advice and experiences in the comments area.

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Teen Choice Awards 2011, Has Your Teen Been Voting?
The Teen Choice Awards 2011 will be airing live Sunday, Aug. 7 at 8pm est. on FOX. Until then your teen can vote for their favorites(link on blog). They will have to register, it's free, and it is for teens 13 to 19 only - they check ages in the registration. Your teen can vote once a day, everyday.

If you want to see what songs, television shows, celebrities and movies that are most influencing your teen's culture, check out the list of nominees(link on blog).

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